11 August 2010, 7:03 pm
I was hoping the Will Smith lyrics would pull you in :3. And here I go with my dilemma ~ Problem 1: One of my best friends likes me, which is no big deal to me, but I can't see myself liking him back or being with him which is pretty normal. Well, he used to tell me all the time (like a month ago) that he loved me, blah blah blah etc. I'd never say it back to him, unless i was making it verbally obvious that I loved him as a friend, which I do. All of a sudden he stopped talking to me, and will still talk to all of my friends and invite all my other friends to movies and stuff, and totally seclude me .... S:.. what just happened here? Even if he stopped liking me, what's the point of completely pushing me out of his life? Problem 2: A few months ago I hooked up with this guy (keeping it PG viewers, we didn't do anything extreme) and after that day I never saw him again. I decided it was best not to add him on facebook, because, well, it's a tad bit embarrassing... anyway.. A few days ago, he added me on facebook and started being all flirty and saying, "we have some unfinished business to attend to" and crap like that.. clearly this guy just wants to get in my pants, and I can see that. He's a cutie, though, I have to admit, but a scummy person. Anyway, he started texting me and keeps asking me to come down to where he lives, and I'm honestly out of options of rejection, it's ridiculous. I'd rather cultivate a friendship than do whatever he wants to do above all else first, but i know I won't be able to get through to him with that one. Plus, I sort of like someone else .... Problem 3: ........ okay so onto the guy I actually like :$... he's really cute. He just broke up with his girlfriend around a month ago, so I haven't been trying to make it apparent that I like him. I've known him for maybe two months before that, but we didn't really ever talk. A month and a bit ago, he had a few people over and me and my friends were there, and then we got to talk a bit more, but he was still dating his girlfriend. A week or two later he had a legit party and I went to it as well. i started to talk to him more on facebook and stuff, and he would talk to me on fb chat and he gave me his number. i texted him like, a day after him and his gf broke up and we talked for a bit. i told him to text me the next day .... but ne never did :\. fast forward two or three weeks later to a few days ago. He texted me saying, "hey, do you want to go to a party with me tonight?" but i left my phone and peaced to the beach for the whole day so i didn't get it until i got home. I texted him apologizing, but he didn't text me back cos he was ... well partying. yesterday i texted him and asked him how the party was and we started talking about how we'll hang out real soon and stuff and have fun. today, he texted me with a simple "heey :)" and we started talking again, and we were gonna meet up today with a few of our friends and chill but we couldn't. we said that we'd just hang out another time with smiles. Um. Is he worth my interest? Problem 4: I know this all seems a little stupid to say, but... problem four is the guy that I'm practically in love with Dx. this sounds really dumb to be fawning over another guy when i'm in love with someone else, but let me explain. Me and this guy have been friends for around three/ four years. I've liked him basically the whole time on and off, but seriously, I am head over heals for the boy. Anyway, him and I are like best friends. We tell each other most things about us and someone to do with the opposite sex... he pisses me off almost everyday, but i always forgive him because it's hard for me to stay mad at the guy. Sometimes i think he knows that I like him, but if he knew, i think he wouldn't tell me half of the things he does if he knew. Me and this guy have a lot in common, too. We don't just talk about simple minded things like hookups, we actually talk about things like our futures a lot... like everyday. Well, not anymore cos it's summer, but you understand. So obviously we know eachother on a different level. but he doesn't like me, so I'm trying to move on (problem 3). When I saw him at Problem 3's party last month me and him were talking for a fairly long time and he kept holding me and stuff, and he kissed me on my forehead and my cheek and stuff for a bit. I was left confused. Sure, that may not seem like a lot, but it made me happy. the thing that is crappy about this guy is he has no boundaries or consideration for my feelings. He's one of those people that I should forget about, but that I just CAN'T ... p.s I know this is practically a novel xD. & no, i'm not a sluuuu, and i'm still a virgin and stuff so i'm also practically the good girl :3.... now.... what should I do about these four .... p xD. i know it's long. i don't expect ya to read if you're not into it, but if you're in for a fuc|... Read More »
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